Govinda opens up on wife Sunita amid divorce buzz: 'She has made many mistakes'

Bollywood icon Govinda has finally addressed the swirling rumours surrounding his marriage to Sunita Ahuja, his wife of nearly four decades. Earlier this year, reports had spread suggesting that the longtime couple was on the verge of separation after 38 years together. Putting an end to the speculation, the actor shared his side of the story during a candid appearance on the talk show 'Two Much' with Kajol and Twinkle. For the first time, he spoke openly about his bond with Sunita, his understanding of her personality, and how their relationship has evolved through the years.

Govinda, who is known for his humour and charm, painted a deeply affectionate picture of his wife. Referring to Sunita as the “child of the family,” he described her innocence and honesty as the foundation that has held their home together. He revealed that despite their disagreements and differences, he has forgiven her numerous times throughout their marriage, emphasizing the importance of compassion and acceptance in any long-term relationship.

"Sunita is like a kid, but the responsibilities that she was given—she could manage our household only because she is what she is. She is an honest child. Her words are never wrong. It is just that she says things that she shouldn’t. She has made so many mistakes… I have forgiven her and the entire family so many times," he said.

Sunita’s Spirit and Strength Behind the Family

While recalling the many years they have shared together, Govinda portrayed Sunita not just as a wife but as a vibrant and spirited person who brings childlike warmth to their home. He expressed that although she can be impulsive at times, her heart is always in the right place. To him, Sunita remains the lively core of their family—someone who never hesitates to speak her mind yet shoulders every responsibility with grace.

Govinda affectionately mentioned that their children, Narmada (popularly known as Tina Ahuja) and Yashvardhan, often treat their mother like a child, highlighting the unique dynamic within their household. He explained that Sunita’s candid nature often leads her to say things she perhaps shouldn’t, but her words always come from sincerity. Her ability to balance family duties, emotional demands, and her own individuality, he suggested, is what makes her truly special.

According to the actor, Sunita’s genuineness and innate honesty have been instrumental in managing their home for decades. He credited her for being the anchor that steadied their family through every challenge, saying that her authenticity allowed her to nurture not just their children but also their bond as a couple.

The Evolving Understanding Between a Husband and Wife

Govinda also reflected on the challenges that come with long-term companionship, acknowledging that sometimes he finds it difficult to perceive things from Sunita’s perspective. He remarked that men often fail to think the way women do, and this difference in emotional understanding can lead to friction in relationships.

In his words, while men may pride themselves on being the heads of their households, it is ultimately women who guide the emotional rhythm of the world. This, he noted, is what gives them unmatched emotional strength and the ability to nurture relationships with patience and empathy. His reflections highlighted not only the mutual learning that comes from marriage but also the humility it requires to accept one’s flaws and evolve together.

Love Rooted in Forgiveness and Emotional Maturity

When questioned about whether Sunita ever corrects his mistakes, Govinda responded with characteristic humour and honesty. He admitted that while Sunita has often tried to correct him, she too has made her share of mistakes over the years. He then revealed that forgiveness has been a recurring theme in their relationship — one that has allowed their bond to remain strong despite challenges.

The actor expressed that in many marriages, especially when a man loses the emotional support of his mother, he tends to rely deeply on his wife. Over time, that emotional dependence transforms the relationship, with the wife gradually adopting a nurturing, mother-like role. He explained that this dynamic can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, but it also reflects the depth of emotional intimacy that develops between a couple over the years.

Govinda shared that as time passes, one begins to notice how their partner has evolved—from being carefree and youthful to becoming more protective and instructive. This change, he suggested, is not a sign of distance but a reflection of how love matures and deepens through shared experiences. His words carried a sense of nostalgia, warmth, and the wisdom that only comes from decades of togetherness.

Standing Strong Against Speculations

Despite persistent gossip about their marriage, Govinda and Sunita have continued to appear united in public. During the Ganesh Chaturthi celebrations in August, the couple was seen together, radiating happiness and harmony. Their affectionate appearance at the festival served as a powerful rebuttal to rumours of discord.

Addressing these speculations herself, Sunita dismissed the negativity surrounding their relationship with confidence and clarity. She reminded everyone that if there had truly been distance or bitterness between them, they would not have been so visibly close. With characteristic candour, she asserted that no external force—neither divine nor demonic—could ever separate the two of them. Her statement reflected not just her commitment but also her fierce sense of loyalty and pride in their bond.

A Love Story That Stood the Test of Time

Govinda and Sunita’s love story began long before they became one of Bollywood’s most enduring couples. The two tied the knot in 1987, but their marriage was kept private for more than four years as Govinda was still carving his niche in the film industry. Over time, their relationship evolved from the secrecy of their early days to a partnership that weathered fame, public scrutiny, and the constant pressures of the entertainment world.

Their children have also followed creative paths. Their daughter, Narmada—known on-screen as Tina Ahuja—stepped into Bollywood with her debut film Second Hand Husband in 2015. Their son Yashvardhan, too, has shown interest in filmmaking, continuing the family’s deep connection with cinema.